When I hear men in our society say hey our prophet married ten.
If we get married in three or four years, the problem is that the boys can get married, then it is very difficult. I know that the Prophet did not do anything without a reason. I do not know everything clearly.
Tell the men you have heard that it is okay to marry three or four widows.
Marry a widow who has a son or a daughter. You will see that he has locked his face.
Those who say these things are called scoundrels in a sense. They say such things for the sake of mischief.
Number two is that if a person does not have to wait till the Day of Resurrection to get married for the second or third time without the written prior permission of his wife, the wife can send him to jail. Because remarrying without the consent of the wife is a legally punishable crime in our country.
Therefore the subject of everything is the environmental situation after the social position.
And something is universal. Multiple marriages are allowed in the Qur'an. When this permission is granted, 10 Companions were martyred in the battle of Uhud. Their wives became widows. The only way to give dignity to a woman at that time was to marry her. You can do it and if you can't, then one hero is better. We only read the first part and comment, not the whole.
So it is permissible to have more than one marriage when it is needed, such as for the protection of the offspring.
One is approval and the other is practice is completely different.
And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did not do ten. Twelve. If we see who he married, only Hazrat Ayesha and Hazrat Maria were virgins.
If these matters of biological necessity were to be married, then it would have been natural for him to marry a virgin, and it was not at all difficult for him because he was the head of state over the religious head.
There should be no shortage of beautiful virgin daughters for him.
It is clear that he did not perform these marriages for the sake of biology.
His first wife Bibi Khadija was 40 years older than him 15 years before he married Nabiji. He was twice or three times widowed. His mother Fatima and Nabiji's four daughters were the mother of two children. He could not forget her even after that death.
Hazrat Ayesha (RA) once said that I still love her because she was very faithful to me. When people disbelieved me, she believed me. When people were afraid to help me, she stood by my side like a steadfast mountain. She was the mother of my child.
In a word, we can say that through marriage he has respected the mentally disturbed women, established their social status and harmonized the spread of consciousness.