Marriage is the greatest desire of every boy and girl who has reached puberty and growth. He wanted to get a partner and companion in the secret difference. They consider marriage to be the beginning of a happy life and celebrate it.
Laying the foundation of twin selection and family cohabitation is a natural need that has been established in the existence of every human being which is a great grace of Almighty Allah. Really, apart from the Family Happiness Association, can there be a place that can be a sure refuge for young people? It is the affection for the family that can set people free from fragmented thinking and inner turmoil.
There one can find a faithful and compassionate friend and companion and can be a helper and sympathizer in various sorrows and problems. The covenant of marital life is a divine relationship that unites the hearts, calms the sad hearts, and unites the fragmented thoughts towards one purpose. Home is a place of love, friendship and affection and the best resting place.
The Prophet of Islam (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘He who does not have a wife is a poor and helpless person, even though he is rich. And the woman who does not have a husband is also poor and helpless, even though she has money. '(Majmauz Yawaid, Volume 4, Page 252)
He said in another place: ‘Marriage is dearer to Allah than any other, and no foundation has been laid in Islam.’ (Biharul Anwar, Vol. 103, p. 222)
Hazrat Imam Sadeq (AS) asked a man: 'Do you have a wife?' He said: 'No.' He said: 'Even though I own the whole world, I do not like to spend a single night without a wife.'
Two young men and women with little information and inexperience are entering a new life. To be in this context, there will be a lot of problems. Different disagreements, misunderstandings, anger and arguments will start. Since parental intervention is not intelligent and planned, it will not solve any problem, but will deepen and deepen the disagreement. The first episodes of the wedding, a tumultuous and critical episode. Many families are separated during this period.
Many of them again, by defending the external condition of the joint life, take the form of arguments and strength tests till the end of life. Some families, after a while, become acquainted with each other's character and manners, and find relative comfort and well-being.